memoir

Michael Hurley was still reeling from the end of his twenty-five year marriage after a life-changing infidelity when he found himself out of a job and with little wherewithal, left only to look back on his life and wonder how to move forward. A lifelong sailor, Hurley found his call for perspective answered by the sea, and he committed himself to undertaking an impressive journey from Maryland to Nassau on his 32-foot sailboat, the Gypsy Moon. With only the open water of the Atlantic for company, Hurley set off on his expedition in the hope of uncovering answers to his many questions through self-reflection amid the natural grace – and hardship – of life on the open seas. Initially, he wrote letters to his friends that chronicled his innermost thoughts and experiences during his trip, but eventually those letters transformed into Once Upon a Gypsy Moon, a memoir that details two years spent between the Gypsy Moon‘s determined journey and the life on land that churned along because of it. On his adventure Hurley would connect to himself, grow ever more deeply in-tuned with his faith, and meet the love of his life. He would discover, as well, that life is as unpredictable, and sometimes as unsettling, as the ocean’s tempestuous waters.

Once Upon a Gypsy Moon drew several different and impassioned reactions from me. At its height, the memoir captivated me in deep artistic appreciation; Hurley’s elegant, fluid prose was a source of pure delight all its own, and his depictions of life aboard the Gypsy Moon had me wishing for a dockside view, at the very least, all the better to immerse myself in the memoir’s tangible salty air. Amid the rocky terrain of the unpredictable ocean landscape – and with technical difficulties and masterful storms to blight his path – Hurley engages the reader with stories from his life, filled with both joy and sorrow. Through the entirety of his craftsmanship, Hurley has created a certain atmosphere that softly envelops his reader. When his narrative set foot on dry land, however, the scenes involving his social excursions felt slightly more distant. As it is in dreams, I felt that I couldn’t quite make out the faces of the people he wrote about; the finite details didn’t hook me there. Where they did, however, was in his documentation of his days spent tending to the Gypsy Moon. Even for one with as limited a nautical vocabulary as I, these scenes were clearly spun of a special sort of magic. Every memoir is, of course, an excursion into the deeper reaches of the author’s own insight, and Hurley delivers his view of the world – predominantly of love, marriage, and the intricacies of his personal faith – through extravagant prose the scope of which reveals that the author is not just a sailor, but also a dreamer and a poet.

Hurley’s insights share their space in the memoir with the Gypsy Moon herself, and she’s a bit of a scene stealer. Many would agree that few things are as commanding as the majesty of a boat on the water, and for a mortal man to offer something more enchanting is a true task. It would take an especially poignant story to entertain the reader as well as the simple, tremendous escapism of imagined life at sea; whether Hurley’s missive accomplishes this will depend greatly, perhaps entirely, on the character of the reader who entertains the pages of his memoir, but he certainly puts his heart and soul into the process. His honesty and courage are admirable, and his opulent, creative use of language delivers the memoir in a beautiful presentation. At times sparkling with charisma and exuding the crisp excitement of maritime adventure, Once Upon a Gypsy Moon offers readers a journey through the ocean of life that will appeal to the hearts of dreamers and romantics, be they on land or at sea.


Title: Once Upon a Gypsy Moon: An Improbable Voyage and One Man’s…
Author: Michael Hurley
Genre: memoir
Publisher: Center Street
Available Formats: hardcover, ebook
Release date: April 16, 2013
Provided by: Center Street (c/o)
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As a proficient technology executive with a successful career history, Janet Pucino saw firsthand the inequality women face in America’s modern corporate world. From the difficulties women face in moving up the corporate ladder to the belittlements that prevent the fullest use of their skills at every corporate level, Pucino witnessed the remarkably one-sided struggles that result from an environment historically prone to gender biases. In her new book, Not in the Club, An Executive Woman’s Journey Through the Biased World of Business, Pucino explores the concept of an informal but obstinately elite group dominated by men in the upper echelons of corporate America: the “Club”. The premise of the book illustrates the reality of gender inequality in the business world, as well as calling attention to hierarchical biases and the general inaccessibility of organizations whose executives demonstrate Club-based mentalities. Backed by startling research study results and calling on the experiences of other executives – both male and female – Pucino boldly uncovers the reality of the mood in today’s corporate world.

Not in the Club takes several shapes throughout its exploration, all merged into an informational book under the systematic and professional voice of its author. Partly a memoir, it serves as a canvas for the personal experiences and anecdotes Pucino has collected throughout her career that support her Club theory. Now the CEO and founder of a company specializing in content development, publishing and consulting, she has much to reflect on in the progress of her career and the people whose professional involvement helped – as well as hindered – her managerial experience. Alternatively, much of the book works as an informational guide for women in the early stages of their careers, illuminating key characteristics of Club mentality and offering advice on how to progress through or divert from organizations that foster it.

Lastly, Pucino’s book is a call to arms for both men and women at every stage of their corporate careers to stop and examine the reality of gender bias and the extent of its presence in professional environments. Pucino writes with commendable professionalism, and while at times I could imagine that the passion with which she pursues her study could ruffle the feathers of some readers, it’s clear that the strength of her voice is a necessary tool for creating change. Her business savvy and use of the industry’s language will likely appeal to professionals in all capacities of the corporate world, making the book a useful and effective component within its milieu. Promoting new ideas for business management with a refreshingly progressive focus, Not in the Club clearly portrays Pucino’s mission to create more opportunities for women and an increasingly effective environment for professionals of all diversities.


Title: Not In The Club: An Executive Woman’s Journey Through the…
Author: Janet Pucino
Genre: nonfiction, business
Publisher: Deep Canyon Media LLC
Available Formats: hardcover, paperback, ebook
Release date: February 1, 2013
Provided by: Olmstead Williams Communications, Inc. (C/O)
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Throughout her career, Alison Pace’s stories have been graced with the moniker of “dog lit”. But for Alison, many of the years spent writing novels about dogs, and essays about dogs, and book reviews about books about dogs were years spent without a dog of her own. Growing up in a house with no less than four dogs at a time, Alison is a lifelong lover of the animal with a wealth of memories for all the dogs she’s known. Living in New York City, though, has its dog-related difficulties, and pursuing the presence of dogs in her adult life found a way of becoming a lingering dream. In her new memoir, You Tell Your Dog First, Alison recounts, among other things, her decision to finally get a dog of her own: including the hunt for the perfect dog-friendly apartment, the extensive search for the appropriate breed, and the many adventures that come with dog-ownership. The dog at the center of the book, and at the center of Alison’s delight, is Carlie, a West Highland white terrier.

There are so many things to love about You Tell Your Dog First, most especially from the perspective of a dog person. Whether you own a dog or fawn over the ones your friends and family have, there comes a time when your love of the animal borders a bit on eccentricity (or so people tell you) and reading Alison’s essays evokes the feeling of camaraderie that alights between dog people: the sense that we understand each other, that we “get it”. In that way, You Tell Your Dog First is like sitting down with another ardent dog lover to talk about our shared passions; our dogs. Alison’s charming and witty narrative conjures a cozy environment that allows the reader to spend some time in a happy place, hearing her stories about Carlie and the adventures (or misadventures) they find together in the city and the country. As much as the stories in the book are about Carlie, or dogs in general, the stories are also about Alison. Her genuinely personal approach to writing about the special self-discovery that comes with dog ownership lends yet more warmth to the narrative. She examines Carlie’s ability to root out bad boyfriends, strike up friendships with like-minded people, and ultimately guide her smartly through life. You Tell Your Dog First feels very much like a tribute to the way dogs lead their owners.

I’ve been a fan of Alison’s books for years, and this might be my favorite of her works to date. While her writing has always been wonderful, the reader sees her prose blossom under the subject of Carlie, and the wit and wisdom the Westie has brought into her life. As a result, the book shows the opening up of a person’s heart in the way that only a dog can achieve. The solidarity I felt with Alison and the adoration I felt for Carlie made the experience of reading You Tell Your Dog First a wonderfully personal examination of the joys dogs bring into the lives of the people who love them. This is a book impossible to overlook for dog fanciers, and one readers will likely want to visit again and again for the beautiful way it captures the dog-and-person relationship.


Dusty approves. Happy reading!


Title: You Tell Your Dog First
Author: Alison Pace
Genre: memoir, pets
Publisher: Berkley Trade
Format: Paperback
Release date: November 6, 2012
Provided by: Penguin Group (C/O)
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How do we define love? Can it transcend the matter of age, of gender? Can it transcend time? Can soul mates be brought together in every lifetime, if indeed we all live multiple lives? Do soul mates really exist at all?

These are some of the world’s biggest questions, and author Joseph Dispenza pursues them boldly in his progressive memoir, Older Man/Younger Man, which tells the story of his life with his partner, Mike, a man thirty years his junior. Joseph, who spent eight years of his life after high school in a monastery, was in the throes of great self-confusion when he met Mike; he knew only that he wanted to serve others, and finally achieve a healthy, committed relationship for himself. Feeling at once hopeful, nervous, spiritual, lost, and determined, his narrative is one that any reader can relate to, regardless of age, gender, sexuality, or spirituality. In the book he documents the beginnings of his relationship with Mike, through their decade-long courtship and the many trials and triumphs in between: from numerous medical scares, including the dark cloud of cancer, to the ups and downs of making an inter-generational, same-sex relationship work, and even the struggles of uprooting oneself for the purpose of starting over. As Joseph and Mike move from Santa Fe to San Miguel de Allende, Mexico, their lives and love continue to evolve, bringing about new challenges and new rewards alike as they work to create LifePath, a retreat center for spiritual and physical healing.

Joseph’s reflection on the struggles of a relationship hindered so strongly by convention are rendered into vivid life through his unique approach to writing Older Man/Younger Man. His narrative takes on a present-tense dialogue, following his recent cancer scare and continued relationship, and weaves it within flashbacks to his first meetings and budding relationship with Mike, offering a depiction of his life from multiple angles. He also reflects back further, to his childhood and the young adult years he spent as a monk, which make the book feel as much a journey of self-realization as it is a love letter to his life’s partner. A third element woven between is the collection of poetic asides that serve as direct verses meant for Mike, written in a prose that feels beautifully archaic as it explores the concept of love through multiple lives, a romantic notion that results in deeply personal expression. This is, in all, a brave work not just in the context of the unconventionalities of the relationship, but in the selflessly honest voice with which Joseph welcomes the reader into the most personal part of himself. I was moved and endeared to the author by his courage in documenting what is surely the most intimate part of anyone’s life: one’s spirituality, sexuality, the acceptance and beauty of age, and the determined pursuit of happiness. When you take away all the layers, these are the most relatable, most human elements we have to share, and in such a way the most private. With Older Man/Younger Man, Joseph puts forward these private, utterly human parts of himself in order to share his story and inspire his readers to let the magic of love open their minds as well as their hearts.


Title: Older Man Younger Man: A Love Story
Author: Joseph Dispenza
Genre: Memoir
Publisher: self-published
Format: e-book
Release date: August 30, 2011
Provided by: Joseph Dispenza (C/O)
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